wicking

Hello everyone sorry I have not posted in a long time. I think I have been dealing with my incontinence fairly well. I have some new questions that maybe someone can answer. From research on Google I think these are all wicking related questions,

First, I still wear poise panties or depend underwear; can someone explain why only the absorbent material between my legs gets used? The absorbent pad of both products is always dry towards the top and back of the product. Only the center part of the absorbent core is used. This causes an uncomfortable lump of used diaper core. I think it would be better if the whole pad can be used instead of only one spot.

Second, has anyone ever experienced that lumpy feeling from a used product? I am always afraid that the diaper gel is going to leak out when I sit down.

Finally, how do you know when the absorbency of your protection is used up? Like I explained earlier, the front and back on the underwear and panties is always dry. Only the center part is used. Is there any way to safely use the whole product without leaking?

Thanks for your input.